I don’t want to hear “I can’t believe this.”

I want you to read up on the history you’ve had the privilege to ignore.

I don’t want your opinions or thoughts.

I want you to listen to the Black experiences you’ve chosen to forget. 

I don’t want your #BLM Instagram story reposts.

I want screenshots of your bail out money donations and patronage of Black labor/art/knowledge.

I don’t want your passive Twitter likes.

I want you to follow Black tragedies as much as you follow Black trends.

I don’t want to vindicate your white guilt. It’s yours to reconcile.

I want you to check your racist parents and call out your apathetic white friends (especially when there are no people of color there) without expecting a pat on the back.

I don’t want your tears. I have plenty of those.

I want you to check in on your Black loved ones and respect our emotional/physical boundaries.

I don’t want to diminish the adversity you’ve faced from aspects of your identity.

I want you to acknowledge that your life is easier because you’re white. I want you to admit that you would never choose to be a Black person— because you know your life would be harder

I don’t want you to be “a good white.”

I want your activism to be questioned and challenged and criticized by Black people. I want you to grow from your mistakes so we can grow as a nation.

I don’t want your out-of-context MLK quotes on perpetual pacifism.

I want you to see that the only difference between The Boston Tea Party “protestors” and the Stonewall, Watts, and Rodney King “riots” is the former were white and the latter were Black. I want you to be disobedient to signal the need for change and destroy the oppressive systems that make you comfortable and powerful.

I don’t want you to use public demonstrations as an opportunity to role play The Purge or fulfill your Joker fantasies.

I want you to use your white body to shield brown demonstrators from tear gas and bullets.


I don’t want peace. 

I want justice.

I don’t want you to prove that you’re “not racist.”

I want you to know that you are the byproduct of a successful racist regime that has capitalized off of Black oppression and suppression for centuries. I want you to realize that being racist is more American than apple pie.

I don’t want you to feel at ease.

I want you to take a look at yourself. I want you to shed light on the corners of your subconscious you’ve glossed over for years. I want you to know that you are racist because you have be trained to be so, and it’s within your power to become anti-racist.

I don’t want my strength to be praised.

I want you to respect the breadth of my emotions. I want space to break down and acknowledge my grief.

I don’t want to lose your attention.

I want you to remember Tony McDade during Pride. I want you to remember Ahmaud Abrey during Independence Day. I want you to remember George Floyd when you vote in November. I want you to remember Amy Cooper at your Christmas dinner. I want you to remember Breonna Taylor when you hear a knock on your door. I want you to remember Trayvon Martin every time you see a bag of Skittles. I want you to know that this reconditioning is a necessary lifelong endeavor.

I don’t want you to be an ally for me or some other Black person in your life.

I want you to be an active ally because it’s the right thing to do.

Ways You Can Help:


To the family and loved ones of George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbery, and Breonna Taylor

To my Semicolon Bookstore Campaign— supporting Black woman-owned businesses and Chicago youth and literacy.

Or, to an organization: The Bail Project, The Minnesota Freedom Fund, the NAACP Legal Defense Fund, Communities United Against Police Brutality, and The American Civil Liberties Union


If you participate in a local protest, make sure to take the following precautions and acknowledge city curfews— if they apply.

Contact your Congress Representative today


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707 thoughts on “Dear White People, This is What We Want You to Do

  1. If you think me, or most white people with common sense give a fuck about something as trivial as your skin pigment your are as ignorant as you accuse Caucasians of being, you are in apathetic, selfish, closed minded individual, and you are leading the youth of this country and your own creed into an irreversible era of violence, you weren’t my slave and I’m not your fucking master, and you know nothing about who I am is an individual and the so called “privelage” i had, I choose the fight for right and wrong, not black and white. May God have mercy on your soul

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      1. It’s monkeys like you that make black people look stuped.. there not as ignorant as you are. your an embarrassment to all the good black people in the world

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      2. What in the absolute eff are you talking about? My privilege to work my balls off to take card of hundreds of worthless monkeys who overpopulated, do absolute nothing for the world and carry more diseases than any other race. Oh good job, you make good boom boom music. What is your history? Why does the whole world hate you? What have you EVER contributed? If your race is so proud go back then go to the homeland. Find your food with blow guns and sticks and die from lions, hippos and mosquitoes. If whites are privilege d, its because we earned it. We took care of our own. What can your race say on the same subject? Your own “kangz” sold you ignorant chimps to us. You have owned slaves too. Where is your reparations to them? Nobody is asking you to be here. It’s the opposite. Look at the most prosperous countries on earth… extremely white. Look at the worst. Extremely black. You monkeys are delusional. The only reason you’re alive is because of white kindness and empathy. You wouldve killed yourselves off if not for our interference. How the fuck am I privileged? I’ve worked since I was 15 and can’t get a free college education. Ive paid for all of it. Working full time and schooling full time for 6 years now in the name of bettering my sons future and his sons futures. Ive encountered prejudice, ive encountered favoritism, ive encountered negativity. But my DAD taught me to endure and achieve. Whats your dad’s name? Where is he at? You want a fucking war chimp? You got it. I watched i white cop save an elderly black man’s wife 3 weeks ago while a random black dude asked me for a smoke, then a ride, then face book lived everything and started screaming racist while the cops and eat where trying to save the dudes life. You ignorant puppets of society. Slave. Thats what you are. And you like it. Suck dem dick and think they are helping you when thats all they done was rape you while reps strive to give you a leg up. One after another and you fail to take the free rung on the ladder cuz you’d rather be violent raping, stinking and worthless animals. You dont want to do better. Study after study has proven your incompetence. Bit most get shunned by the liberal media who doesn’t want to acknowledge facts. Id say I pity your soul but animals don’t have one. Chimp with vocal cords. Funny how I can teach any other child on earth English in 3 years and they speak it fluently. Or teach an English white person any other language in the same time and they speak it fluently. You monkeys have had 300 years and still can’t pronounce ask. Ignorant fool. You think you was kangz? You think so highly? Let’s do this moneys. We will put you back in your zoo in whence you came. Monkey.

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    1. White privilege does in fact exist. White people yes should fight for racial justice to get rid of the racial injustices in our society.

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  2. The author of this pathetic excuse for a site is NOT EVEN AFRICAN AMERICAN…she is Black American. HER ANCESTORS WERE FROM EUROPE!!! NOT AFRICA!!! THEY CAME TO NEW YORK AND STAYED UP NORTH FOR GENERATIONS. THEY WERE NEVER SLAVES!!! FUCKIN STUPID ASSHOLES WHO DON’T EVEN KNOW THEIR OWN LINEAGE BUT DARE CLAIM SLAVE STATUS…I am a certified genealogist. I work for a well known online heritage site. This is just a scam and desperate attempt to receive attention.

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  3. Blacks and whites can’t live together. It’s the only way to solve this issue, we should’ve never thought we could make it happen. It will never work, it never has and never will, we need to split up. I’ll be brutally honest, I don’t give a fck about racism and I don’t need too either. I do agree on one thing I read: the white man should’ve never took you from Africa. Just think how good you would be doing now. It was a mistake.

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    1. Hello Jackson, Unfortunately, what never should have happened did happen. Who I am now in the context of our country’s history is who I choose to be. We can make so many choices, why not choose to be one family on this one planet? I see it as we can choose to accept each other or not. We are all made of the same biology – our ancestors chose to use our physical differences to gain and keep power. We can undo anything we want to – but we have to want to.

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  4. This is horrifically delusional. Im a lower class white who grew up in a poor household and my family and i have never ever been prejudice towards anyone. always welcomed anyone into our homes and hearts. worked hard for everything we had an suffered for it as well. we dont even see black people on a regular basis where we live. why the fuck is any of this my problem, any more than some issue going on in a country across the world?

    if you must care about every injustice that doesnt even involve you, why arent you posting about the rights of aboriginal australians and uyghur muslims in china? or about the serbian and albanian social conflicts? who the fuck are you to say were guilty when weve never even been in a position where any of this is relevant to us? this author needs mental help
    by the way my ancestors were not slave owners. they were natives of russia and rural people.

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    1. What’s WRONG with you? That’s NOT what she said!! What she DID say is “I want you to acknowledge that your life is easier because you’re white. I want you to admit that you would never choose to be a Black person— because you know your life would be harder.” Why is that too hard for you? It strikes me as a pretty obvious truth.


  5. Holy smokes these comments are awful. I am commenting to add weight against this craziness. I loved this post. I appreciate you taking the time to help people like me – white and actively working to be anti-racist – know how to show up. We are using race muscles we are not used to using and I appreciate the suggestions and guidance as I work to build my own anti-racism muscles.

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  6. This is so condescending and reeks of the black victimhood bullshit pervaiding the west, especially the USA. It is this sort of antagonising nonsense, based on a lie, which stokes fear and hatred. But when non-black people call foul of this inaccurate narrative of systemic racism they are apparently racist.
    Unfortunately it is this unfounded bullshit that is inciting a race war at present in the USA, propagated by the BLM idiots. And black victimhood preachers are screaming “told you the white man was against black people”. But what did they and their supporters expect would happen? Regardless of skin tone you can’t antagonise a peoples and not expect a retaliation eventually. Just look at 9/11. Retaliations are inevitable given enough time and pressure. You can call it however you want but some idiots have pushed and pushed against authority, citing race as their reasoning, and now those people and their supporters are pushing back; trying to prevent the destruction of public buildings etc being their reasoning.
    All of these riots and lots of pain, death and destruction coming about due to unfounded fears of innate racism being embedded within authority is pointless and sad. I can see it becoming a self fulfilling prophecy unfortunately though! The USA especially is currently a powder keg just waiting for a spark. 😐

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    1. No only the partisapents in an oppressive system says things like that. Seems like your apart of that problem 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

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  7. I just want to say, THANK YOU for this article and for the resources. To everyone commenting, please consider if you would say the same thing to a loved one. Many of these comments are hurtful and harmful, and we as humans can be better than that.

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  8. This makes me want to kill myself. My DNA is inherently evil as a white person. I cannot connect to my ancestors or culture because they were evil. I have longed for the guidance, the connection. I have felt horrible about this my whole life and have never felt at ease. It would be better off if I was dead. No matter what I do, it is never enough to erase history. One less white person to get in the way.


    1. ^^^This person is obviously NOT white nor does he/she really believe this, but nice try! Please take a grammar lesson, a few logic lessons and MANY history lessons. Then, return to edit your post. Thanks!

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    2. Why is it that reading this post makes you feel so hated and defensive? At no point did the author say white people are inherently evil. She said racism is evil, and she is right.

      No one is asking you to “erase” history, as far as I can see. You can’t erase it, and you can’t change it, but you can learn from it (the good parts and the bad parts), and you can change the present and the future.

      An awful lot of replies here have been about white privilege and how some people think it’s not a thing. Yes, it is. It’s a thing that means, among other things, that if I get pulled over by the police, I may fear for my wallet if I’ve been speeding, but I am not the least bit likely to fear for my life. I am not anxious to let go of this lack of fear, either – I just don’t want it to be a privilege. I want it to be the norm, for everyone.

      Racism is a part of our world. You may not be personally responsible for its existence, but you are responsible for how you choose to respond to it.

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    3. NOT WHAT SHE SAID! What she DID say is “I want you to acknowledge that your life is easier because you’re white. I want you to admit that you would never choose to be a Black person— because you know your life would be harder.” Why is that too hard for you? It strikes me as a pretty obvious truth. It does NOT make you evil. Throwing up a smoke screen to avoid doing the simple things she is asking of us might though.


  9. Hey bitch, you can go to hell you fucking asshole. We have the privledge and power over you, so what stupid nigger. We are not donating anything to your blackasses. And don’t think for a split second that we even consider you are right about enemies to your skin pigment, black pig okay? Also, guess what, we don’t give a shit and BLM doesn’t give a shit either. The only thing they give a shit about is ruining the governemnt and having fun busting everything in the streets. Look, we don’t hate blackheads because we just do, we fucking hate them because 75% of prisons are filled with blacks. They are like were black and we killed someone so we should just be let go because we black and you don’t want riots? Look, face the truth and you fill your fucking slef with some nice goddam history. And how the fucking world works okay nigga? You still reading this nigga? You still on this site or world nigga or are you being shot and rightfully tortured by police and controlled propertly nigger? I hope you read this and everything else, because the world doesn’t hate stupid ass blackheads for no reason, the upper class is not privledged for a reason. But because black heads speak weird and use all sorts dumbass calls, like brotha, and homie. Presidents of the world act like they give a shit to stay in their political position. FUCK YOU BLACK ASSHOLE BITCH ASS PIECE OF DIRTY SHIT YOU GAP HOLED STINKY BREATH JAMACAN RELIGON WEED SMOKING BITCH. FUCK YOU BLACK NIGGER.

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    1. How many times do I have to telling you about that word. If you met me on the street and said that you wakeup DEAD.😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆


      1. Lol, real tough guy you are. “Fight me IRL!” is always the sign of an easily-outraged pussy. You aren’t gonna do shit, so why don’t you quit pretending.

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    2. Wow. What you just wrote is so hurtful and inappropriate. I’m sorry you’re suffering so much that you need to lash out against other people like this. It says a lot about what’s going on for you. Best hopes you find more peace and cause less harm.


    3. Wow your hatred is unreal you’re pure evil. This Woman has been attacked by savages like you. I’m a white person btw.


      1. It must cause by now they must have the worst case of scoliosis 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆


  10. Fuck off you completely useless nigger. We hate you and always will. You are roaches. Opportunistic bipeds. You niggers are the number one cause of your own death via homicide but want us to believe that Black Lives Matter, you hypocrite. They Dont matter to you and will never matter to us, coon. You can play sports to entertain me, rap to entertain me, engage in gang warfare and abortions to keep you at only 12 percent of the population and fill our jails so i can watch prison shows. You are only here for our entertainment. Here to do our dirty work. That’s it, cockroaches. White power, negro bitch.
    And black pussy is incredibly disgusting which is why black men only fuck your stank asses if a white girl os not around. I’m throwing up thinking of it

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    1. Wait last time I checked you came from caves and wallow in pig shit so who’s a roach again.😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆


    2. Oh and 2 for saying that word I would literally kill you on the street.😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆you bitchasses


    3. There is no white power real power can’t be stolen from us black people. but it can be taken from you😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆


  11. Hi, dear white people person.
    I was forced more or less through Google to get here. But as I was scrolling to find support I found this.
    My friend, you wish white colored people should do things for you. But that’s not how it works, you go out and get things yourself. Earn respect and all other necessary things in life that could benefit you and other around you. So stop your complaining. Btw how about, hey, dear black people. Yeah, not racist yet? Get a grip and stop crying. You made a book telling white people to do shit. What if it was the other way around?

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    1. There is a book telling Black people to do shit. It’s called the American Constitution. White people also reappropriated the Bible to colonize African countries and force Blacks into slavery. I can change how I react to discrimination and White Supremacy, but the oppressed cannot overturn the system that oppressed them. Only the oppressors.

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    2. Respect is an interesting thing. I’ve seen a lot of comments on here that leave me with very little respect for the people who wrote them as individuals, but that is only one kind of respect. It’s a close cousin of admiration, I think. The other kind of respect is the kind that is due to every human being simply for, well, being human: respect for the fundamental right to live, to be free, to be recognized and treated as a person. This kind of respect has nothing to do with accomplishments or opinions or inherent goodness. It is due to everyone, regardless of any of those things.

      As for white people telling black people to do things, do you really not understand we’ve been doing that for centuries? Before you get your knickers in a twist, I am using “we” in the same way I would when talking about any group of which I am a member, so please don’t come at me with any “I never did XYZ.” We, as a group, have told black people, as a group, what to do for a very, very long time, with the full support of the law for most of that time, as well as with full societal approval. Now, a woman has the audacity to suggest perhaps we examine and reconsider our behavior concerning race and racism, and suddenly the sky is falling.

      I’ve said it before, and I will say it again: if this discussion makes you feel angry and defensive, maybe you should think about why that should be so. I’ve had to do it, and it was kind of eye-opening. I learned some good things about myself, and some things that frankly, made me feel a little embarrassed, mainly because they surprised me so much (like the fact that I was feeling a little angry and defensive, for one thing.)

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  12. The roots of slavery are economic, not based on skin colour.
    I would encourage you to listen to this talk and the following one.

    When we understand causality we can work together to create something new.


  13. Good God… the OP and the comments that follow all go to confirm my suspicions: America is in a death spiral. Goodnight, Uncle Sam….


    1. Good I’m glad it is in a down spiral 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊


  14. Okay, first of all..STOP THE RACIST ASS COMMENTS.
    Second of all, dear black people,
    You have plenty of demands on how you want to be treated while treating white people as if they are evil and our feelings don’t matter. You would get a lot further if you would stop displaying the very attitude you claim to be against.
    That’s all. Get along. We all die some day anyways.


  15. Dear black people, go fuck yourself. I live in a white country and everyone here worked very hard for everything they have. My anchestors sweated blood to build a safe, normal country. My parents sweated blood to build something for their children. And now black people are talking about `white privelige`. You claim white people have it so easy and they get everything they want to free. Go fuck yourself. Seriously, go fuck yourself. You want better lives? Then work for it. White people worked hard and now they reap the awards of all that work. What have you done, besides whining, killing each other and claiming to be victims? I have met many of you and you all share one trait; you want it all, you want it for free and you want it now. Go fuck yourself. You get nothing with that attitude. You people are your own worst enemy. Everything you people touch turn to shit. And that`s your own fault. I would gladly help you if you gave me a reason to help you. But you don`t. So go fuck yourself, you get nothing.

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    1. Yeah worked hard off 1. the behalf of us black people and 2. white privilege fucking loser😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆


    2. Nah that will never do. But you fucked yourself when you started slavery fucking colonial bitches😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆


  16. I just gotta comment. I read your article here and, quite honestly, got a little miffed. I thought about it for a bit and realized MOST of the BLM protesters are WHITE. Well, where I’m at, at least.
    Looks like you, the author, are at least half white? Do you hate that half?
    Got to say I can agree with some of what you said here. I went to college with the type of white people that would participate in BLM/MLK parades/protests (you get my drift?). These types of white people mostly concerned about not being racist. They try SO HARD to not be racist! They come off to me as incredibly disingenuous. Through all their efforts to not be racist, they end up being accidentally racist in the process!
    I can admit I wouldn’t want to be born black if I had the choice. You know why? I can see through all this fake revolution bullshit. What everyone is actually saying is Blacks are incapable of living in society and are unable to help themselves. It’s all spelled out plain as day. Surely you can see this! If I were black, the last thing I’d want are a bunch of white people pretending to be so “progressive”, spouting off BLM chants and running around a bunch of protests. Most of all, it would be a burden to me, as a black man, to know that all these attempts made (laws passed to force racial diversity, affirmative action to “lower the bar” etc.) were patronizing attempts to make it easier for me to survive. That, to me, is the definition of racism and further proves my point above.

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    1. Two things really hit me about your post. First of all, it’s incredibly cynical. I suppose there probably are white people who participate in BLM protests because they think it’s “cool. However, is it really impossible for you to believe that most are there because they really don’t want to hear about another George Floyd or Breonna Taylor, ever again, that they are there because the injustice of those deaths and others like them infuriates them?

      Also, I am calling BS on your argument that it’s racist to support BLM because it’s really the same thing as saying that black people are less capable than white people. It doesn’t mean any such thing, and I think you know that. The fact is, there is an imbalance of power in play here, and it doesn’t have anything to do with ability. I think you know that, too, but it just makes you feel so clever to argue otherwise, doesn’t it? It probably makes you feel very good about yourself, very enlightened, to point out who the “real” racists are. Right? Especially when you can do it without actually doing anything other than mocking and belittling people. If Tucker Carlson ever retires, you can take over his show on Faux.


    2. 1. Actually, most BLM protesters were and are Black.
      2. This is not about hating white people.
      3. Racism in this county stopped capable Black people from many, many things. From succeeding too well, as in Greenwood and Wilmington. And from living at all in too many places to even name. And racism continues to hold non-white people back, and it needs to end. Everything that Black people accomplish has been done in the face of obstacles that you don’t care to acknowledge, because you do not experience them. I assure you they are real.


  17. I actually don’t give 2 shits about what u ppl want me to do. Read up on our history, not every white person is British, Moron and I couldn’t care less about your difficult life. You were never a slave and my family immigtated here and suffered as immigrants way more recent than your did as slaves and my family recognized what the US gave them. If all you have to do is bitch, feel free to go back to Africa and live in a war torn crap hole with no clean water. There. Is. The. Door. If you just want to cry and force your shit on us then go form a black only commune. Why force yourself on us when we don’t want you and don’t want to listen to your shit. Bye Felicia.

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    1. Shut ya pigskin ass up y’all are a bunch of bitches go take a bath in pigs shit like you usually do.😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆and YES I’ma a BLACKMAN


    1. Shut your bitchass up and go hang your white neanderthal ass don’t get fucked up y’all talk all that shit to people that want no prob bring that shit to me and see how long you have.


    2. Hey zahlreich you punkass I will fuck you up and your neanderthal brothers you bitch and no I don’t just talk it go hang yourself your not long for this world anyway.


  18. I read this blog in hopes to learn something and I must say I have learned the most from the comments. The ignorance and hatred that comes through on some of these comments are discussing. Fist off, you are generalizing the entire black race without any facts or understanding WHY people of color are filling our prisons. My guess is you have some raciest grandparents who thought you “the way it is” and they couldn’t possibly be wrong, right? You need to travel and educate yourself so you can see that we are all 1 race, the human race. The only reason our skin pigment varies has to do with where our ancestors lived in proximity to the equator. That is it, otherwise we are all exactly the same. So no one is better than anyone else because of their skin tone. Really think about why you hate black people, because they look different from you? Is that not the most insane thing ever? that’s like me hating bald men because I’m not bald… it’s idiotic. I’m guessing that the majority of you racist’s commenting on this page are from a small town, don’t know many people of color, are uneducated, and have never traveled outside your little po-dunk town so you can experience something besides drinking Busch light on the bed of your pickup truck. It takes a lot of energy to hate someone for now reason. Don’t you want to let go of the stress? it is so much healthier to love and accept your fellow man especially because they didn’t do anything to you. If we start to treat everyone equal.. I mean TRULY equal, then all of this hatred will eventually go away and we will wonder why we were ever fighting in the first place. Before you get mad just put yourself in someone else’s shoes and ask yourself this question, “would I trade my white life to be black?” You know the answer is “no” and you know why. that right there is your white privilege. You now you would be stereotyped, have a better chance of being killed by law enforcement, have less wealth, have worse schooling and healthcare, have a harder time finding work, etc. You fucking KNOW IT!! Sure we all struggle in some way or another but just because you struggle doesn’t make the struggles equal and it doesn’t mean you can’t support your fellow man that needs help. It literally does nothing to your way of life to have total equality amongst all mankind so get your head out of your ass and tell your grandparents to read a book or talk to someone who doesn’t look like them. I suggest you do the same and stop listening to the current president as well. He doesn’t know his asshole from a hole in the ground.

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  20. I’m so tired of the bullshit……… a long time ago when the word freedom was put out there it should have been specified as a boat ride back were you originally came from…. this country would be a hell of a lot better off and I don’t blame anyone but my white ancestors for being lazy as fuck and not picking their own goddamn cotton!

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  21. Sweet fuck on a popsicle, it’s not hard to get the deep racists to expose themselves, is it? The article is supposed to make you feel a bit uncomfortable, and I hope to god it makes you think critically. That’s what we need! White people (like myself) confronting their inherent biases and racism and working every day to reeducate themselves to do better. Throwing around tired curse words and yelling slurs just makes you look like a fool.
    I like the rhythm of this article, the simple and straightforward way it’s written. It’s impactful. We need to do more, we need to do better. The fight is not over.


  22. To the ignorant, back woods, cousin fucking, racists in the comments….you have threatened, verbally assaulted, patronized, and dismissed the author of this article because she is angry, and tired, and fed up, and standing up, and not having it anymore, and she is not alone in this. You are all crying and whining while trying to hold on to your price of shit privileged existence. This is a movement that is well overdue and the boulder of strength and unity is going to roll right over you. I hope you realize the irony of the fact that you were all so upset and pissed about hearing what this women had to say that you choose to throw a temper tantrum of insults and threats. With your level of sensitivity, clearly you wouldn’t last an hour on the receiving end of the hate you have poured out. You are insignificant, predictable, unintelligent, racist, babies. Now shut the fuck up and sit the fuck down, this lady was speaking!


  23. White conservatives tend to be super triggered by this so first let me recommend that the snowflakes relocate to the nearest safe space. We’re donating old “MAGA 2020” shirts for pajamas bc, yano, they weren’t used for the celebrations. Second, even if we ignore the history of the GOP admitting they disadvantaged black Americans for the sake of recruited white America’s (read: your) vote, the fact that you haven’t identified the many blatant forms of racism (I live in a city where there is a major torture scandal via police against black America — see Jon Burge and Homan Square) means you should prob expand your parameters beyond Tucker Carlson and Charlie Kirk, the latter who leads an org that has a history of “accidentally” hiring people so racist that they had to fire a bunch of employees once racist tweets resurfaced. So the fact that Kandi is triggering you means her message is on point, kind of like how MLK and every other person is America history (including white pastor James Reeb) during Selma, triggered conservatives in America. Have a nice day, snowflakes.

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  24. The hate on the comments, I read a few and as far as I can see it’s mostly people saying quit your complaining without realising they’re slaves too. That’s were the hurt is, you all should be sad for each other.


  25. I have a dark complection/red skin, but had to identify as white because my A-hole father hated everything non-white. My green eyes gave me away. My mother and I got beat. No one likes a melato White-Native American kid. Not even the Cherokee would want to acknowledge me, so I found solace in whiteness. Painful road living with racism and losing your friends to a racist A-hole father and mother; however, I have changed myself, and no longer denigrate non-white folks due to my ignorance and racist background. In fact, I chose to interact with Black Folks and purposely move to racially diverse neighborhoods. I get in altercations, yes, but my experiences with true friends and folks I can trust brings me back to center. Thanks Black Folks! My life is better now, maybe I am not a rich white boy, but I am better in spirit, and always not afraid to argue and fight to the death if need be for what is right.


  26. Wow ! That was so powerful.
    I’m going to be honest and not insult your intellect your 100% correct i would not want to be black. I don’t know if I could get up every morning to start my day with the fact that my ancestors endured such Painful hateful mean treatment from the ancestors of people who hire me, school me. Pay me , friend me and government me. I don’t think I could go through pretending I’m not feeling threaten or just as enslaved as my ancestors .
    My life is easier because I’m white and only privileged because it wasn’t my ancestors who had to endure painful hateful mean treatment .
    With that said rooted Americans must remember 300 years later we are all we have and belong to . I can’t remove our history but I will do everything I can that part of history never repeated itself .


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