“Light skins in particular can afford people palatability that people of darker complexions may not have as easily” Bridget (Chicago, IL)

My school has reached out to me for the past two years to be featured in our Year in Review magazine. I’ve never responded. I’m lucky that my institution even asked for my permission to use my body because oftentimes people of color aren’t given that basic right. Quite frankly, I’m not the “face” of my school. This past year, I was the only Black undergrad in my music major. Sure, I’m comfortable and proud to speak up for my school. But I don’t want to be a still image, plastered with my toothy smile and my responses to questions I don’t wanna answer. My face can promote diversity for white people without promising resources for brown people. I think campaigns and advertisements should portray the desired future, but performative diversity without proactive inclusion is just contemporary servitude.

“Light skinned people: Do your homework, be conscious of the privilege you walk with, do what you can to fight the prejudice that our darker-skinned brothers and sisters (specifically dark skinned black womyn) face in every aspect of life, culture, politics etc”Robert (Lawrenceville, GA)

Colorism [(n.) origin: slavery, like most fucked up things in America)

  • prejudice or discrimination against individuals with a dark skin tone,
    typically among people of the same ethnic or racial group.

I know it’s not my job as a person of color to educate others about the history of our systematic oppression, but I just wanna make sure we’re all on the same page. Back in the day, lighter skinned slaves (who were typically the product of white slave owners raping Black slaves *cough cough Andrew Jackson*) were given indoor domestic work while darker slaves were assigned physical labor.  Light skinned slaves were placed higher on the skin tone totem pole due to their proximity to whiteness. White folks in power developed stereotypes to condone the hierarchy. Dark skinned slaves were “savages, criminals, and unintelligent” and therefore suited for hard labor while light skinned slaves did domestic labor because they were “smart and beautiful.” 

“Media sometimes depicts darker skin tones as being bad or less than and [lighter skinned people] should help us change the narrative”Joia (McDonough, GA)

Even though colorism originated from white supremacy, it’s perpetuated by us light skinned Black folks and other POC.  I say “us” not to imply an “us vs them” within the Black community, but to acknowledge where I stand on the color spectrum and own my privilege. For decades, elite HBCUs (Historically Black Colleges), societies, and Greek organizations used the Paper Bag Test to select new members and students. The Paper Bag Test pretty much means that if you’re lighter than a brown paper bag, then you’re in. If you’re darker, you’re out. And if you think the internalized colorism stops there, you’re sorely mistaken. Infamously, the casting call for the 2015 film, Straight Outta Compton, separated women from A-list to D-list based on skin tone and hair texture. A-list girls were “the hottest of the hottest” with “real hair – no extensions, very classy looking, great bodies.” On the other hand, D-list girls were “African American girls” that were “poor, not in good shape” and had “medium to dark skin tones.” 

“If [light skins] actually want to be sensitive to this, you have to be able to check that privilege and realize that it does exist, so that when you’re in situations where it comes into play, you can be aware of it and actively work against it” — Tolu (Fort Washington, MD)

Mainstream society provides more opportunities and favoritism towards light skinned women. Choosing to ignore the severity of the repercussions on dark skinned Black women further highlights any individual privilege. A 2007 Harvard study, “The Skin Color Paradox and the American Racial Order,” provided stats exemplifying how “Dark-skinned Blacks in the United States have lower socioeconomic status, more punitive relationships with the criminal justice system, diminished prestige, and less likelihood of holding elective office compared with their lighter counterparts.”

“When we point out differences in experiences and privilege, it’s not to minimize [light skinned] experiences, but to bring light to disparities we experience solely because of our skin” — Jasmin (Long Beach, CA)

What do the following things have in common?

  • Reverse Colorism
  • Jeans under $20 that perfectly fit my thighs and waist
  • Shaq shooting above a 60% free throw average

They’re impossible. The same can be said for any “reverse _______ism.” That’s not to say that every light skin person has a perfect life (see my romantic history). Light skin folks can have difficulties in life, but they’re not because we’re light skinned. Light skinned tears don’t belong in the conversation of colorism because you can’t benefit from and be a victim of the same form of oppression. Oftentimes when light skin folks complain about colorism, they’re really talking about something else.

  • Exhibit A: racial fetishism and sexism“Ah guys only wanna fuck me because I’m light skinned”
  • Exhibit B: anti-miscegenation or just flat out racism.“What are you?”Because it really means: I can’t easily mono-racialize you, and I wanna know if I should hold a prejudice against you
  • Exhibit C: gatekeeping“I feel like I’m too Black for white folks and too white for Black community.” 

“Recognize when you see examples of the privilege and take a step back”Fredrick (San Pedro, CA)

As a light skinned person, I present an externally palatable Blackness— one that’s been tamed and codified by white expectations. The white gaze views my Eurocentric features as “beautiful.” My proximity to whiteness makes people more comfortable. And these rationalizations (like white supremacy in general) are complete bullshit. Like, if I went to Disneyland and saw a cast member as light as me portraying Princess Tiana, I’d be pretty pissed. Any time I see a light skinned person being elevated, celebrated, or just damn listened to, I wonder who’s been marginalized simply for being darker skinned. I’m not saying to boo and hiss any light skinned person who makes historical progress. I’m just saying that it’s a foot in the door, not breaking down walls. It’s easier for us light skinned folks to succeed when white supremacy gives us a head start. 

“[Light skins] don’t need to wait for it to hit close to home before they decide to take action or speak out for people when they are being discriminated against. Change definitely starts from them, their actions” — Oyinda (Chicago, IL)

It’s hard to talk about systems of oppression that we benefit from. To call the issues light skinned folks face “reverse colorism” feeds into white supremacy and negates the experiences of people who are actually victims of colorism. It further perpetuates that dark skinned folks are bullies and jealous of light skinned folks. And that’s just not true. I definitely don’t have all the answers. Anyone who says they have all the answers is an idiot or hasn’t lived enough to realize that they’re wrong. But I know that light skinned folks need to check our privilege from the jump. It’s using our proximity to whiteness to dismantle the system that elevates us. It’s refusing celebration for satisfying the white gaze. We should contribute with our personal experience with colorism only when explaining how we’ve benefited from or perpetuated it. I’m used to being the only Black person in white circles, and I know I have an easier time because people don’t always “see me as Black.” For me, that’s the most powerful light skinned privilege I’ve ever experienced, and it’s terrifying because all of these systems of oppression prime me to perpetuate white supremacy. When I’m the only Black person around, I feel like it’s my job to make space for folks darker than me. So when people try to pull the shit of “Oh you’re so white for a Black person” I clap back with “Nah, just you associate positive attributes with whiteness, and I’m gonna serve as a reminder of Black excellence.” Because, at the end of the day, getting ahead while leaving someone behind holds us all back. 

“To those who were built with the code of respectability, power, and privilege in their genes; your success is a platform I must continue to climb the ladder towards. The wealth of other skins are only pigment deep” — Carl (Chicago, IL)

Have you experienced colorism? Do you benefit from light skinned privilege? Comment below!

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7 thoughts on “Colorism and the White Guilt in Light Skin Tears

  1. I’m a Blackman I need a lightskin blackwoman that perfers Blackmen only and wears tight bootyjeans no underwear I want to smell her bootyhole through them when I smell her asshole I need her to be my slave and wear a chaincollar and will carry my real sexual Demon sperm in her asshole while she’s shitting.


  2. I thought this was an interesting and insightful post about colorism. I definitely believe it exists and is embedded in many cultures across the globe. Would be a great discussion topic especially amongst a group of WOC.


    1. As a blackman I like lightskin blackwoman that want to be darkskin not white I want to smell your bootyhole do you want to meet up.


  3. I do dislike the total – nice-washing- of the so called preference of light skinned people. As being a sexual or an exotic object of desire to both white and black folks is not a privilege – but a burden. If a woman does not want to be looked at as the norm-beauty with brown spice in it – she will always just be that – till she grows old and out of it – and then she is merely just the black woman. Also family members who cut out light skinned due to their perceived privilege – make it hard as a family system is essential for any person and a lack of a functional system is for a light skinned person – just that – a lack. Noone cares if you are a black woman from an unfortunate home and dark skinned family members can ask for your solidarity – however you cant ask for the same back – as you allegedly have some privilege. But that does not pay your school or college – so if you are from a home where light skinned ppl are seen as a unwanted mishap – that dont earn any solidarity – you can say as a light skinned that solidarity does not make any sense for you. It is like that: Either dark skinned and light skinned stick together or they perform the same ethnic wars that Africa does to this day due to colorism standards – set in colonialism in Africa and you can go light skinned to dark skinned – small nose to thick nose – dark brown to light brown and or blue black to brown black and make an ethnic race war out of it. And who benefits from this discussion – divide and conquer? Ah yeah white supremacy! So stop this bullshit and stick to you light skin peers as well as to your brown – dark brown – Afro-Hair to straight hair people and stop dividing and crying tears over how much the master loves you less than the light skinned housekeeper who he sexually harrases all the time. The grass aint greener on the other side – and stop thinking light skinned will forget the dark skinned in the course. They cant- cause the white supremacist will surely remind you that your not on of them. At least once he disowns you – you ll find it out at last 😉

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